It absolutely amazes me when I hear singles, especially women, talk about how hurt they feel that a particular person is only interested in them for sex or whatever "physical" needs they have, when in fact "I'll make all your fantasies come true" is what was advertised. Let me explain. People see us before they hear us, talk with us, or get to know us at all. Our appearance automatically tells the world what we're selling.....whether your product be confidence, peace, joy, or sex, your attire and demeanor will sell just that, regardless to what you may be saying with your mouth. Let me break it down further.......if we choose to dress barely clothed (nice way of saying half-naked), cut low up top and cut high down below and show as much skin as we can because we think its sexy..........that's what we're selling....sex. So then we must expect the person we're communicating with to buy that message.....sex, and expect us to follow through with what we advertised, right?...........How upsetting would it be to go to a store that advertised a particular item expecting to get that item, only to find out that the store had no intentions of allowing you to purchase what was advertised. We would get angry, want to sue the company for false advertisement, and tell everyone we knew to not do business with that particular company. If they had no intentions of selling that item, they shouldn't have advertised is right? The same with us........we must wake up and see that if we notice a pattern of "men only being interested in our bodies or wanting sexual favors from us", what are we selling? What are we advertising? People will only buy what YOU sell!......The next time someone approaches you attempting to buy something that you had NO intentions of selling.....check your advertisement.
Patiently Waiting & Advertising the Truth
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