Geez, OK. I know I may sound a little bit like I'm venting.....because I am. When it comes to the large number of married men that hit on me, I have a brewing frustration for multiple reasons!
1. It is upsetting period that a man would commit to a woman, start a family, and appear to build a solid relationship on promises and principles and then have the audacity to at the same time attempt to start something with me, a successful single. Come on, men. Seriously?! Don't commit, if you're not ready. If you're having problems at home. DEAL WITH THEM AT HOME. Do not attempt to use a single woman ( me or any other woman who's not your wife) as your blanket of comfort or source of entertainment to distract you from the dysfunction of your own household.
2. I am highly disappointed in the women that DO develop intimate relationships with married men. Surely, the reason that those men believe that I am willing to cross the sacred boundaries of marriage, and develop something with them is because so many women ARE willing. Ladies, have enough respect for yourself to know that you are worth much more than being a man's side dish. Girlfriend, you have the ability to be the appetizer, the main course, the dessert, and his drink! Don't settle for another woman's sloppy seconds!....Keep moving!
Lastly, it frustrates me (and I may be looking too deep into this, but just bear with me) that a man would think that because I am single......I'm desperate enough to be willing to talk to "just anybody" whether he's married or not! Excuse me. I am single by choice. I choose to remain single until the caliber of man that I am worth/the man created for me presents himself to me. When he does, I am more than certain that he will not----be married, disrespectful, rude, or punkish about pursuing me.Whew!........I feel so much better!
Patiently Waiting ( for a man that's NOT ALREADY MARRIED!)
