This post is for those that really want to live a life with REAL RESULTS!! This is not for people that want to talk a big talk, but refuse to make the necessary adjustments to see change. So, for the mature and eager to see and be something/someone different here goes:
I must be willing to become what I desire to attract. Let's just be honest what is the likelihood that I will really attract a man in tip- top shape with high standards about physical fitness if I'm overwight and sloppy?! Is it realistic that I'll attract a man of wealth that appreciates money and manages it well if I don't even balance my checkbook?!
On the surface it may seem like because opposites attract(or so we've been told) that it is very possible to attract a mate that currently operates at a much higher level than we currently do in many areas. However, the truth is that we attract who we are. In order to attract a thing I must become who I desire to attract. Birds of a feather REALLY do flock together and like really does attract like.
So, what does all this mean? It means that it is no longer acceptable for us to expect to attract a mate that is something that we ourselves are not willing to become.
For example, because of the caliber of man that Stratford is, these are key areas that I have committed to perfecting over the next year:
1.Weight control/weight Management/Healthy Living
2. Organization of home/vehicle
3. Time Management
4. Money Management
5. Dressing for where I'm going, not for where I am.
6. Environmental consciousness
I'm taking the first step by saying its unfair for me to expect Stratford to be sharp in these areas if I'm not even willing to come to the plate and incorporate simple systems into my own life now to manage these things.
I'm asking for your help!! Help keep me accountable in these areas and I'll continue to share my journey(ups and downs) and I tackle each of these areas over the next year!
Sooo,what areas do you need help with?!
Getting myself together as I wait!
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